We are all so powerful. Sometimes we don’t feel this way – we can feel down and depressed and wonder if we are powerful at all. My intention with this post was to show each of us that feeling empowered is universal, and it comes in so many forms. It’s a feeling we’ve all felt at some point in our lives, and I believe that if we can remember how wonderful we felt when we knew we were powerful and always carry that with us, we will be unstoppable.
I have had moments of feeling powerful throughout my life, but the moment that made me stop and really own this power was when I consciously brought Dan into my life. I was feeling really down and was trying to make sense of my place in the world – a world that seemed so hardened and cold at times. I wanted someone to share my days with and connect with on a deep level – a soul level. And so I did something that I rarely did at the time: I prayed. I asked the universe for a best friend. And two weeks later, Dan came into my life. That was 10 years ago, and we’ve been inseparable and completely in love ever since that day. When he appeared, I realized how powerful I was. I asked for someone, and there he was. We are all creating our lives every single day, and we may not even be aware of it. I have found that when we align ourselves with the universal energy, we are unstoppable. And that is powerful!
I asked some friends to share their powerful moments here, and their stories are beautiful, touching, and definitely empowered.
Marilyn Tam: By age eleven I had already been shuttled between my parents’ and aunt and uncle’s homes twice, neither wanted another girl in the family; boys were much more valued. I was definitely not feeling powerful. Learning about my classmate Rebecca’s home life that year changed me forever. Rebecca’s family of five lived in a room and shared a bathroom and kitchen with two more families; oftentimes they went to bed hungry. Even with both parents working full time, there was just not enough money to feed, clothe, and pay rent and schooling for the three children. I was filled with outrage. It was not fair or just that Rebecca and others like her had to live that way. I vowed to help.
I resolved that I would one day help right the inequalities in life. That became my life mission, and it burned away my sense of powerlessness. I was now driven with determination to move forward. Leaving home before the end of high school I came to America for college and for opportunities to change the world. My life mission and new sense of personal power kept me going every time I fell down. And I fell down a lot.
Today I am grateful to say that I’ve helped in making a difference in many more lives than I’ve ever dreamed. Helping in changing the labor standards in the apparel industry worldwide and in returning destroyed Amazon forestland to indigenous plants among other things, I am encouraged that indeed I can do something.
And you too are more powerful than you think. When we follow our life mission we are powerful beyond measure. May you live yours fully. You can start now.
Mimi Shannon: I think that I understood in some backhanded way very early in life that I had some kind of power because my mother was always mad at me for some trumped-up misdeed but, more importantly, the big clue was, she constantly punished me for being me. Of course I didn’t see myself as powerful – only flawed, bad, a disappointment, a misfit, someone who didn’t belong or deserve to be treated well.
It wasn’t until I was diagnosed with lupus in my late thirties that I began to understand my power, make peace with it, allow it, and eventually, live it. Somehow I knew that I could beat this devastating disease of self-hatred (no, not the clinical definition but true none-the-less) if I could learn to love myself…so I did.
Over a span of four years, without drugs or modern medical intervention, I put the disease into remission by simply (well with a few twists and turns) learning to love myself. That’s when I discovered what real power is. Loving ALL of myself unconditionally freed me from the fear of being me and released me into my authentic/true self so that I could shine without shame. I was finally aligned with me.
Since then, I have been blessed to understand that this is not only my true power, but it is everyone’s true power. When we can find, love and allow ourselves to be seen in this magical metamorphosis, we access our natural power to radiate this beauty into the world through our very lives.
Leah Griffith: I can’t remember the exact moment when I first came to recognize my own power, but I do remember being around twelve-years-old and engaged in an epic family conflict. It was then that I realized that I could move myself in a different direction from where my mom and stepfather were heading. I could see outside of the cycle of dysfunction enough to know that I needed to find a path—and a people of my own. Ever since then I have kept this power, adding to it the knowledge of a loving God, the power of embracing myself—flaws and all, and how being my authentic self opens the door for my soul’s gifts to flow out to the people in my world.
Christa Gallopoulos: I have a really recent example of stepping into my power – from just a few days ago.
I’ve hinted at and alluded to a personal history of abuse off and on now for a couple years, on my blog and elsewhere. While I’ve been able to talk about it in person, one to one, for quite some time, and have been really clear about the fact that what most people would consider to be tragic experiences have been a gift for me, I had not been able to claim that in print. Or in front of a large audience. Not anywhere close.
My power, you see, comes from having seen some of the very darkest parts of life early on, seemingly on unending repeat. Not just having survived being molested and maligned, emotional and physical beatings, or the later bouts of cancer and brain injuries, but actually facing them and shining a light on the past so that I could find the gifts in what I truly wouldn’t wish on anyone. And while I’m happy to know where my strengths lie, you can imagine that it’s not the kind of thing you put on your business card and hand out at cocktail parties. So, for quite a while, I fumbled about. I helped others to face their own demons in a number of capacities. I brought beauty to the world through my images and words. I did good on a lot of fronts. Still, I wasn’t really stepping into my big girl shoes. Not really.
And then, just this past weekend, inspired by a fearless speaker and an incredibly brave writer working to bring sexual abuse into the light of day while showing extreme compassion to all involved, I did it. I came out, on the World Wide Web, and said that I was one of those kids. And that until we stop making both sides “other” monsters and victims, the “ones who dwell in the dark,” it will not stop. I did it here, and as you can see, so far, the support has been phenomenal. And I’ve heard from many others who are ready to tell say “Me, too” – with compassion and without fanning the flames of fear. I am writing my book and hoping to inspire many to tell their stories, to educate the world, to allow us, as a society, to begin to heal. That feels like power to me.
Elizabeth Hartigan: What a great question, we are all so much more powerful than we think or could even imagine…
I first tapped into my own internal power when a major health challenge appeared to teach me and gift me with a great lesson. In 2001, I found a small lump in my neck and began not feeling so well. After some tests and doctors visits I was told it was likely cancer. I knew that I was not to undertake traditional treatment and internally I knew I had created this lump through my thoughts and feelings, as I was not in a very positive place. I moved from Florida to Arizona and was not feeling too happy about the move. And after going within, I knew I had to make some really big shifts. I had an internal and deep knowing that I was not to go through traditional treatments. And that this was a journey within.
After much prayer I found my direction, it was simply to BE! I took lots of baths, surrounded myself with healing music, removed any trace of news and negativity, and allowed myself to dwell in gratitude. I literally began immersing myself in gratitude from my head to my toes and realized how much attention I was paying to a pea-sized lump in my body, when the other 99.9% of my body was happy, healthy, and whole!
As I shifted my perspective and perception the lump had disappeared. When I went back to the doctor to get more tests, the lump was gone along with every trace of imbalance. I thought this experience was just for my own internal healing; I had no idea this moment would lead me to find my purpose and passion. I believe the power of gratitude is the key to opening the door to healing of mind, body, and spirit.
When we come from a space of gratitude it unlocks the door to our dreams and shifts the way we see the world! May you always remember you are more powerful than you could ever imagine!
Julia Fehrenbacher: About three months ago, I took a major leap of faith. I did something that I was advised not to do, something utterly impractical, something that would be considered stupid and naive to many. Something that I knew was absolutely necessary, critical even, for me.
For months I had known that I wanted to publish a book of my poetry and art…I could close my eyes and envision this book so clearly, almost as if it was already a done deal. But the money for self-publishing wasn’t there and I didn’t want to wait until someone else decided that my book was worthy of publishing. The longer I waited to make a decision on this, the more I scanned the hundreds of options out there – the more I felt like I was withering inside. I knew I just needed to move, to allow faith to be my safety net. So, one morning, after reading a post that just happened to be Jodi Chapman’s, I decided to leap. I got in the car and drove myself to the investment company where this money was tucked away for some future tomorrow and signed a form that put the abundance into my hands that very day. I then immediately, without allowing my mind to get another word in, purchased a publishing package.
Last week my book was released into the world. I don’t know what will happen next – what matters is that I decided. I decided to step forward toward the expanded self I’ve always been able to envision, I decided to listen inside rather than outside, I decided to allow faith to be my guide. I don’t think there is any way this can’t be life changing.
Alice Chan: My first reaction to this topic was not how powerful I am, but how powerful God is, and what pivotal event in my life led me to believe in my connection to this power. Ultimately, I am an expression of my God, my Beloved. And, God, to me is Universal Energy, not a deity in the sky.
If I were to identify a single point in time, it would be the moment I saw my lifeless face staring back at me in the bathroom mirror of my hospital room on January 2, 2009. There were staples running all across my head and down to the left side above my ear. There was a big open gash with raw flesh exposed in the top left side of my head. I was practically bald on the right side, with a very blunt cut to my otherwise long hair on the left side, which was the outcome of the Emergency Medical Team cutting my hair along with the seat belt of my wrecked car to save my life. I had sustained severe head trauma in a near-fatal car accident on December 30, 2008, and was unconscious until moments before I saw myself in the mirror three days later. At the sight of my own ghastly reflection, I was at first in shock, and immediately felt my stomach turn. Then, I remembered being held protectively by Divine Love while I was still unconscious, letting me know that I almost died, but that all was right and exactly as it was meant to be. It was also while being cradled by this warm, Unconditional Love that I felt a very strong conviction—I was kept alive because there was more for me to do in this life. As I stared at my sorry state in the mirror, a part of me knew that I’d get well someday. And, when that day came, I’d live the life I was born to live, not the unsatisfying existence I was too afraid to change before I almost got my wish to have the only alternative I knew at the time—death.
It took a good part of 2009 for me to regain my strength, with the recovery itself challenging my resolve to remain in this human life. Yet, what I experienced in the hospital stayed with me, and I knew I had to dig deep in order to get on with what my soul took on a physical body to do in this life. I left my job to become self-employed in the midst of an historic recession, enjoyed a record financial year in 2010, and even took myself on my dream vacation that same year. Even though I could continue to cruise along in that comfortable life, I said “Yes” to my God to write my first book, REACH Your Dreams: Five Steps to be a Conscious Creator in Your Life in 2011, giving up my lucrative livelihood to become the messenger of REACH. Even though I’m still far from successful in this mission, I know in my soul that going back to my old life is not an option. I believe in and embrace the Divine Power seeking to work through and as me to help others rediscover their true selves and love their lives. I’m acting on this belief by surrendering to this segment of my journey that challenges me to shed the old self-preserving need to hide behind objective success, to truly feel and celebrate my Authentic Self as a human expression of Pure Love. Just as I saw myself all banged up in that bathroom mirror but knew that I’d get through that upset to carry out the greater mission awaiting me, I wholeheartedly believe in my path, even if I’m in the part that’s bumpy, and often dark and scary. And, just as I felt that all was well and in right order in my near-death experience, all is well and in right order currently.
Victor Schueller: The most critical point in my life when I realized that I was powerful was the day I decided to commit to getting myself in better shape and losing weight. Prior to that moment, I was overweight and depressed – I was a victim of circumstance. I let the events in my life determine my future. After that point, when I started working out, watching what I ate, and started losing weight, I realized that I was in control of my life, and I came alive. I never looked back!
Lane Cobb: As a life and empowerment coach for women, I stand for women being free from the conversations that limit them, and living lives that are aligned with their values so that they are free to choose based on what they really want in life. Of course, embarking on this journey resulted in the illumination of all the places in my own life where I had not been being powerful. The most significant of these was my marriage, which had been absent of passion and largely unsatisfying for 10 years.
Two weeks ago, I informed my husband that I would be moving out of our home at the end of the summer, even though my coaching business was not generating enough income to support my financial independence at the time. Since making the declaration to leave my marriage, I have doubled my client base! I am truly in touch with how powerful I am, and how powerful it is when we declare what we want and bring our lives into alignment with that vision. It truly does serve us all to remember that the universe is our ally, a true source of abundance, and a brilliant partner in our quest for whatever it is that we would have manifest! Thank you so much for what you are providing for your readers by providing us with this opportunity to be heard.
Now it’s your turn!
Was there a moment in your life when you realized just how powerful you truly were?
- Maybe you recognized that your thoughts became your reality, and so you decided to stay conscious of your thoughts and created a positive life.
- It could be that you asked for a promotion because you knew you deserved it.
- It could be that you listened to that inner voice that had been whispering for you to go after your dreams.
- Maybe, like Brenda (a wonderful Soul Speak community member and beautiful soul), you realized your power when you were able to grow and evolve after a lifetime of unhealthy relationships. You are getting to know yourself for the first time in your life and setting healthy boundaries.
- Or possibly, like Laura (another amazing soul) you realized how powerful you were by getting fed up with a difficult situation and creating a new outcome altogether. She wasn’t feeling fulfilled in her local choir and decided to create her own – and the results have been beautiful!
- Sometimes our power can show up when we stop listening to others and listen to our own inner voice. This is what happened to Ingrid (a beautiful Soul Speak community member). In a moment of feeling utter helplessness, she found her strength and has never let go of it since.
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