Mar 24, 2011
We’ve had a lot of loss in our lives over the past few months,
and it’s made me realize just how unpredictable and fragile life can be.
No one knows how long they have here on Earth –
we can just strive to live our best lives while we are here.
Imagine you are at the end of your life.
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Mar 22, 2011
Doesn’t it feel good to smile?
You can’t help but be happy when you are smiling – so smile, smile, & smile some more!
I recently watched
Eat Pray Love, and I loved the part where Julia Roberts was in Thailand meditating with a smile on her face the entire time.
I started doing this each morning while taking a shower.
And at first it feels a bit strange to just be in there with a big smile on my face while shampooing my hair.
It’s definitely awkward.
But…while I’m doing it I can feel something start to shift in my brain.
I start to feel happier.
I start to feel lighter.
My brain isn’t able to worry or stress or be overwhelmed when I am smiling.
And these are definitely good things!
Try it tomorrow – see how great you feel!
Plant a big fat smile on your face from the moment you step into the shower until the moment you step out of it.
You get extra credit for thinking about everything you are grateful for while you are smiling!
And for today, take some time to write down some things that bring a smile to your face. (Be prepared to start smiling just thinking about them.)
The more you think about smiling, the more you will start to smile. And the more you start to smile, the happier you will be. And the happier you will be, the more fulfilling your life will become. And the more fulfilling your life is, the more you have to give to others. And the more you give to others, the more they will pay it forward and give to others. And pretty soon the entire world is paying it forward and happy.
And it all started with just one smile.
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Mar 21, 2011
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Mar 20, 2011
I woke up this morning thinking about the many unfinished projects I needed to do, emails I wanted to send, and the seemingly endless pile of papers that needed to be filed.
Not always the best way to wake up. I immediately felt tired and overwhelmed.
But then I remembered a wonderful cd that I listened to several years ago that talked about how we store energy in our bodies. It was called
Energy Anatomy by Caroline Myss.
While it was an amazingly insightful series that I enjoyed listening to, the part that still sticks with me today and that I still use in my daily life is thinking about our bodies as circuit boards and everything we have to do and all of the thoughts we have are plugs. We only have a certain amount of circuits – and just imagine how many circuits you have plugged in when you are feeling completely overwhelmed and stressed out.
When I start to feel this way, I first take a look at where my circuits are plugged in.
I take a moment to write down every plugged-in circuit I can think of – everything that is draining my energy.
Do I have emails to send that are weighing on me?
How about papers that are piling up?
Projects needing to be finished?
A house that needs to be cleaned?
Expense sheets to enter in?
Orders to make?
Friends to call and connect with?
Old thoughts and thoughts patterns creeping back in?
Hurts from the past still affecting me in the present?
The list can go on and on – we are all so busy and we all have so many circuits plugged in to so many things.
First simply become aware of these circuits.
Next visualize unplugging them.
See your body increasing with energy and vitality with each circuit unplugged.
Sundays are perfect days to clearing your circuits – are at least starting to.
You can start by clearing a chunk of time to sit down and batch as many circuits as you can into time chunks.
Send all of the emails in one chunk.
Clean the house in one chunk.
File the papers in one chunk.
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Mar 19, 2011
We watched a wonderful movie last night – one that came highly recommended.
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It was beautifully done. I love how they wove Dr. Dyer’s teachings with everyday situations and normal people who are struggling in various ways. He teaches about moving away from the ego and moving toward our higher selves.
He talks about how in the morning of our lives we are concerned with ambition and competition (the ego) and how we make the shift in the afternoon of our lives toward serving others, finding meaning in life, and being our best selves.
I would definitely recommend this movie – it’s so universal. We are all on our own journey going through life in our own way. And yet, we are all connected, and we all can benefit by going within and getting to know our higher self.
It’s all about letting go and surrendering to the possibility of what’s to come.
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Wayne W. Dyer, Ph.D., is an internationally renowned
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Mar 18, 2011
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Your mind starts whirling with questions:
Did you deserve such a nice compliment?
Would you seem too full of yourself if you agreed?
Should you simply look away and say a quick thank you and then change the subject?
Now imagine how you feel when you give someone a compliment. They did something very well, and you want to let them know that you recognized it. So you tell them, and they immediately deflect it or dismiss it or ignore it. How does this make you feel? I bet it hits you right in your gut and makes you sad. It probably feels like you gave them a gift that they immediately sent back. And you’ll think twice before you compliment them again.
And this is how your loved ones feel when they compliment you.
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This is a hard lesson and might not come easily to some of us – me included.
After receiving some recent press for our business, we’ve had the completely foreign experience of being recognized several times in our daily lives. It’s something that I hadn’t prepared for and takes some getting used to. Seeing yourself through the eyes of others is a great lesson – being told that we have inspired them is wonderful to hear, especially if we can learn to own it instead of deflect it. This is what it’s all about for us. We love helping people, and we are thrilled that our books are doing just that.
So I’ll continue to work on being able to fully receive the love that you all are giving us.
And the next time someone asks me to sign their book, I promise I won’t get all flustered. I will simply thank them and sign it.
And hopefully you can do the same in your own life. The next time someone gives you a compliment, simply accept it, smile, and say “thank you.”
Mar 17, 2011
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You all have truly embraced this space of positivity, and I am forever grateful!
I was so touched to have received the Stylish Blogger Award from two wonderful people, so this post is about them and also about the wonderful blogs that I am passing it along to.
In keeping with the tradition of this wonderful award, I get to share 7 random facts about me and then pass the award along to some other deserving bloggers!
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Mar 16, 2011
It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time to write a post about gratitude!
Feel free to click here (or below) to learn more about our Gratitude Project.
Okay – now for today’s post:
One of the best things about starting a gratitude practice is you quickly realize just how much there is to be grateful for. You can practice gratitude everywhere – and anywhere you look you’ll see something that you’re thankful for. These are great things!
For today let’s narrow it down to just three things that we are grateful for:
the biggest, the littlest, and one thing in between.
And when you write these down – take some time to really feel your gratitude and appreciation. If you have the time and are able to, write an entire page on each one. Write about why you are grateful and how this affects your life in a positive way.
Focusing on just three of the millions of things in our lives that we are grateful for will help you to really appreciate them even more, which will lead to even more gratitude.
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Speaking of gratitude, we have a new Soulful Journal that we are excited to introduce!
The Gratitude Book: 50 Prompts to Keep the Grateful Feelings Flowing
Here is the description:
Feeling and expressing gratitude on a regular basis can lead to a happier, healthier life.
In this book, we give you 50 prompts that encourage you to express your gratitude.
Sample gratitude prompts:
Who is one family member you’re especially grateful for? Write about them, including one special memory that embodies what about them you love and appreciate.
What is one aspect of your daily life that you don’t always take time to appreciate, but that you’re actually very grateful for?
What is one experience from your childhood that you’re especially grateful for? Write about how it felt at the time and, in retrospect, how it’s affected More
Mar 15, 2011
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to do your best.
But what happens when wanting to do your best keeps you from living your best life?
Have you ever had a project that you wanted to start – you had really great ideas – and great hopes of what the finished project would look like – and then you started thinking about how this is going to be the best project that you’ve ever worked on – no one will have ever seen such a project before – and your mind starts swirling with all of this pressure that you’ve just put on yourself to make it such a great project – and you immediately get overwhelmed and just need to step back from it – just for a little bit – and then months go by and you remember that you had a great idea for a project that you never started
(and definitely didn’t complete)?
Sound at all familiar?
Perfectionism can be really amazing – it can push you forward and keep your standards very high. It can make sure you’re living your life to your best potential.
But… it can also be a saboteur in your life. It can keep you from finishing projects, which can do a real number on your self esteem.
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